Why do we stay with those whom are obviously not suited for us? Plenty of times in the past i had asked my self this question only to draw up a blank. There is a feeling of vulnerability when dating some one new and yet it is exciting at the same time. We love the feeling of KNOWING ( supposedly) the person whom we are laying down with. The awkward moments are gone or cease to be as awkward. Most don't really know that they are stuck in limbo. They often find their selves day dreaming of being with others only to have that cold splash of reality hit them in the face.
Most people would rather suffer in silence then to be alone. Oddly it is when we are alone that we discover ourselves and what makes us tick. If your never alone how do you know who the real you is? Does the face starting back at you in the morning as you brush your teeth look even vaguely familiar? It should actually be mandatory that a person spends at least 2.5 years of their adult life....single. Meaning no booty calls, cut buddies or sexual partners of ANY kind. If we know how we are then we are far less likely to settle for simplicity and more likely to recognize relationship limbo.
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